I've been producing female combative media (sites, dvds, downloads) for quite a while now. At this writing, 12+ years. My Home Site is Catfight Haven which is NOW UPDATED FIVE (5) DAYS A WEEK.

I am indeed an everyday girl next door with quite a large family and yes, I go through all the ups and downs as everyone else does. The only thing different about me is that I enjoy what I do. A little outside the norm as the general population would say but then again if you asked them when no one else was in earshot, they'd likely respond favorably too.

I've been called a Southern Belle, Redneck or Country Girl / Woman (long before Gretchen started singing about it), a sweetheart and all around nice family girl by most that know me. Then there are some that call me a bitch but that's because they crossed that fine line from friend to foe or are into gossiping, flapping their gums about things they truly know very little about, being judgemental etc. etc. etc.. I'm a very easy going person who loves my family, God, running Catfight Haven and it's affiliate sites, many other sites both in and out of this genre' for other producers with family help, peace and quiet (depending on the setting of course), the beach, the mountains, having a good time and regardless of all the cracks in the road so to speak that's what life is all about. Just realize that the cracks are going to be there no matter what you do and take them in stride.

I grew up fighting as did others in my family. Not because I liked it so much as because I was taught not to let anyone get in my face. The Golden Rule at home was "You'd better not get in trouble for starting a fight but you'd better not walk away from one either". Meaning if I got sent home from school for taking up for myself or friends it was okay and honestly I got sent home a lot. A lot more often that I like to admit. I'm not ashamed of it and don't really want my children fighting in school but I sure as hell don't want them being walked on either. The same holds true for them. They start the fight or bully someone, they're going to be in a tad bit of trouble when they get home. If they are defending themselves and get in trouble in school, I'll be the first one at the school ensuring the situation was handled correctly. There or at the other parents doorstep. I can't help it. It's the way I was brought up and it seemed to work fine for me.

I'm all for turning the other cheek provided no one lays hands on you in a violent way or attempts to do so.

I've worked in various positions from waiting tables when I was younger to real estate. I did very well in real estate but hated the hours especially on weekends when the kids would say "do you have to work this weekend too?" On top of that I'd have matches on weekends after showing houses all day and be perparing for a match when I'd get a call to show a property. Talk about being caught between a rock and a hard place. Catfighting and Real Estate didn't mix so I had to change professions. Okay, it had a lot to do with the family and time with them mostly but you get the picture.

Anyway, there's much, much more that I think you'd find interesting pertaining to the girls, the skirmishes that weren't caught on camera from yelling, to pushing and shoving and yes even a few spontaneous fights but I'll talk about that later if I ever write a book.

By all means if you haven't visited my HOME ON THE WEB, Catfight Haven please don't wait any longer. Check it out today and remember it's updated five days a week.

p.s. Did you know you can join for one year and do so for less than $9.10 per month and still with FIVE UPDATES A WEEK at the low monthly rate that I keep it at, you just can't beat it.

 

 


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